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There is something pernicious in society that is causing men to lose their manhood and causing women to become more like men and men to act like women. The role reversal is a disaster in couples and many couples can’t stay together if they do not follow their God-appointed role in the family. It results in resentment and loss of self respect. Maybe not right away, but eventually. Many women have a hard time understanding how hard it is to do a 9-to-5 or 60 hour work week, unless they’ve done that kind of work. Both partners need to have empathy because caregiving is a mind numbing experience also. It’s a relentless series of demands on your body and mind to meet every physical, mental, emotional need of kids. I thought my corporate job was hard, but nothing prepared me for how hard it is to raise children in America with proper adab. You need to have good companions with the same aakirah goals, otherwise you’ll be sucked into the American culture of disrespect and confusion.

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